I wonder if you are the one who left?
TikTok astrologer Maryaam Lewis-Herbert, also known as Shawty Herbs, has shared the birth chart positions she believes make a person “unforgettable” and thus blessed with the power to follow their ex’s dreams. theirs.
Herbs has based her list on the sign and placement of Venus in the birth chart.
As a refresher, Venus is our planet of wealth and value. Named for the Roman goddess of love and fertility, Venus is the brilliant, divine feminine counterpart of warlord Mars.
Etymologically, Venus derives from the Latin word for desire, and in nature, the planet informs what we are attracted to and who and what we attract.
To determine if you have a memorable placement, go to a birth chart generator like this one and enter your details.
Scorpio Venus
Venus in Scorpio demands intensity, passion and absolute intimacy in their relationships. Their desire for union transcends the physical, as they seek a total psychic entanglement, making them especially possessive of others, demanding an “all or nothing,” blood oaths and hair dolls, “you can run but I’ll find you” kind of commitment.
Think of Todd’s character in “Wedding Crashers” and you have a pretty solid idea of the archetype we’re dealing with.
Despite and perhaps because of the claustrophobic levels of attention, this placement makes for an extremely magnetic and alluring individual. It is not easy to breathe when you are under this spell, and completely impossible to forget it when you gasp for air.
Herbs explains: “If you have a Scorpio Venus, nobody’s forgetting you baby. No one forgets the love you gave them. The way Scorpio Venus will love you is crazy, but in the best possible way. You give people a life-changing kind of love.”
Venus in the 8th house
The eighth house is the home of themes such as sex, death, resources and rebirth. Having Venus tread these dark waters equates to the profound potential to transform in and through the act of love.
Herbs explains: “If you have your Venus in the 8th house, it shows that the love, affection and energy you give to people is life-changing. Very intense, very passionate.”
Case in point? Venus in 8th House natal Jessica Simpson, who was famously described by her frequently controlling ex, John Mayer, as “sexual napalm.”
Venus in Pisces
Herbs explains, “If you have your Venus in Pisces or your Venus in the twelfth house, the kind of love you give to people is so spiritual and healing that it makes you unforgettable.”
For evidence, see Venus in Pisces, as inspirational/aspirational power players and world tempters like Martin Luther King Jr. and Kurt Cobain, who, in life and death, have inspired collective devotion.
On a less expansive scale, see Venus in Pisces natives like Justin Bieber and Kourtney Kardashian, who have ignited public longing and deep, poetic, small laments over their exes.
Herbs herself confesses that her only true desire is to be loved by a Pisces Venus “because you guys are so selfless and so compassionate and so empathetic.”
Venus in Cancer
At its highest expression, Venus in Cancer is love as medicine, healing childhood wounds and making the beloved feel restored and adored.
This ilk loves you the way you were meant to be loved, but never before.
Herbs explains, “If you have your Venus in Cancer, you’re taking care of everyone. Your energy and the love you give people is unforgettable.”
In perhaps the sharpest display of astrology at work, Queen Camilla has Venus in Cancer. True to the mother idol/womb as the origin and original house energy of this sign, her now husband, King Charles, once famously expressed his burning desire to be her tampon.
Ick definitely but memorable all the same.
Another expansive Venus in Cancer inspiring obsessive devotion to exes and strangers? HRH Stevie Nicks.
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Astrologer Reda Wigle researches and reports irreverently on planetary configurations and their effect on each zodiac sign. Her horoscopes integrate history, poetry, pop culture and personal experience. To book a reading, visit her website
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